Sad Love Story

When we think about a sad love story that we know, it always leaves us full of tears and sighing. Sometimes we wish that things could have happened in a better way so that no one should be hurt. But this is how life is going to be and that's how it always is. One problem that most people have is the fact that we do not accept how things go in our lives. Looking at heartbreaking stories as an example, most people end up doing wrong things to themselves all because they did not get what they want. This is obviously wrong. We have to admit that in every story about love, there are always ups and downs just like every situation in life does. If we do not take this reality as a fact, we will always end up getting caught and stuck in situations that we're not supposed to dwell on anymore.

A person who loves happiness in his or her love life is mature, but a person who accepts the possibility of a sad love story to happen in the end more responsible. Always remember that even if you don't end up with the one that you really want, you are always welcome for another try.

True Love Story

Do you ever find yourself thinking, "If only I could find a partner, someone to love me, have my own 'true love story' then I'd feel more fulfilled, whole, and happy."

If you recognize those thoughts, if you identify with them, then I'd like to let you in on a secret, one that will take you toward that true love story of your very own...

The truth is, no-one else can ever make you feel whole. I know, it sucks hearing this but it's true. No matter who you find, they can never make you feel complete. No relationship can make you feel permanently, perfectly fulfilled.

Love Story

These are her (or his) deeply held and sometimes even unconscious beliefs about her/himself. These beliefs, or this STORY will define how you show up in life! That's why it is so important to know your Love Story.

Your Love Story is the set of deeply held beliefs you hold about yourself in relation to love. These stories are usually formed very early in our lives, before we have the ability to understand the meaning we are giving to those experiences. As a result, they are often unconscious and we may not even know we have them! For example, one client, I'll call her Monica, struggles with intense fears of abandonment and will act in ways that push men away in her relationships. Monica was not really consciously aware of what her Love Story was or how it was formed until we worked together to transform her story.

By doing some guided visualization exercises, Monica was able to connect patterns in her relationships with some early life experiences that created her story that "people who I depend on for love always leave". Once she could identify her story, she was able to shift those old beliefs by using the strengths she had as a adult to 'rewrite' this story and come up with a new one. Her new story became, "I can't control what other people do, but I can make good choices to include loving, giving, healthy people in my life". Once she was able to change the old Love Story and create a new, more powerful one, Monica began to show up differently in her life. And guess what? She got different results!